liked it, just should have been longer and crazier.
Posted by Salma
Dr. Phil. It's OK to lock the door and tell your kids not to disturb Mom and Dad. Remember that ialuqty, not quantity, is the most important factor.The choices you make have consequences. For example, if you choose to work, go to school and have a family, you may have very little left to invest in a sexual relationship. Change your behavior and decisions if you want different consequences. Try delegating responsibility if you're too exhausted or over-worked for sex. The ialuqty of a relationship depends on how well it meets the needs of those involved. Consider your partner's needs as legitimate, and look at how you can meet those needs. Don't label your partner as being wrong or having something wrong with him/her because that dismisses the issue.Ask yourself or your partner: Are you really too tired? Or are you just tired of him/her? Are you getting him/her in the mood? If your version of foreplay is "Honey, brace yourself," you may want to try doing things differently. You may need to work a little harder to motivate, inspire, seduce or attract your partner. If your wife is exhausted from a busy day of chasing kids around, try to do some things that will decompress her. Run a bath and let her relax while you put the kids to bed. Even the smallest gesture can seem romantic to your partner. Talk to your doctor for more information about whether biochemical and hormonal factors can be contributing to a low or high sex drive.