Can a black woman and a white man be friends w/o fucking each other

Hey! My name is Shelly and I'm a 27-year-old black woman who just had her first white man eat her pussy and fuck me crazy! He works in the same building and always treats me nice. He's funny and we always kid each other. I would see him at the gym about 3 or 4 times a week working out. For a guy 52 he is really built well and stands about 5'11", brown hair and eyes and never fails to say hi to me. 

We would kid each other about working out to get a lover and then kill him/her with love! Love being sex!! It got to be a lot of fun kidding with each other until one day he walked pass my desk and said: "Hey cutie! How's that fantastic body today?" I smiled and asked: What did you say?" He said: "I said hi cutie! How's that beautiful body today?" I said: "Cutie? No one has ever called me cutie before?" He said: Well they should you are very pretty and your body is fantastic. Any guy should be very fortunate to be with you Shelly." I smiled my ass off and he smiled back. He wasn't kidding with me he was serious!! He said; "If you ever get tired dating those young amateurs and want to date a real man who would be honored to be with you. Well just call me sometime!" I was very surprised. He had never talked like that before and I was wondering now about him. So the next day I said to him: "Were you serious the other day about taking me out?" He laughed and told me: "Hell yes, I never kid about taking a beautiful woman out to dinner. Are you interested?" I smiled and told him: "Well I'm couruos? Why me and why now?" 

He said: "Well you're fun, and very sexy, and god Shelly just look at yourself. You're a very beautiful woman!" I smiled again and told him: "Well I'll let you one of these days Bud and I just might take you up on dinner/"aid: "Well don't wait to long, you're not getting any younger!" He laughed and smiled and walked away! About 3 days later he came by and said: "Should I make reservations for Saturday around 7PM?" he smiled again and I said: "Well if you are serious then yes! Yes Bud I'll be happy to go to dinner with you. Where are we going?" he asked me: "Well that depends on what you like to eat." I told him: "Most anything!" he said: "Well we could go Italian or seafood or stake or I could cook for you." I said: "Oh yea, you cook for me!" Bud said: "Yes, I can cook a hell of a meal and if you want you can come over to my place or I'll come to yours or we can go out!" I told him: "How about I come over your place at around 7PM and you can cook for me. I have been working my ass off for 10 days and I'm tired! So a night with a good friend at his pace with no pressure would be great!" he said: "Turn around." I did and he told me: "Well Shelly, from the look of that skirt, you still have a spectacular ass! It's hasn't been worked off!" We both laughed and I told him: "See you tomorrow night. What should I bring?" he told me: "Just your beautiful self lady!" I was nervous as hell on Saturday when I pulled up to Bud's place. I rapped on the door and he opened it dressed in shorts and a polo shirt. He looked really good for being over 50!! God he was old enough to be my father. NA, he was much better built than my father was. He took my hand and walked me in took my coat and we sat in his kitchen as he finished the cooking! We had Lobster, with a great melted butter dish flavored with a hint of lime and some other thing I never did know what that was. But it was fantastic. The lobster was stuffed with his special "Secret" dressing! There were the normal things like vegetables and potatoes etc. But the desert was a sherbet that was fantastic. Raspberry flavor with liquor that was very strong but sweet and blue! It was fucking great! After dinner I helped him clean up a little. We didn't clean everything up because he insisted he would do that later. 

We went into the living room and sat down next to each other on the big leather sofa! He poured me another drink of that blue stuff and we talked about everything we had in common, gym, workouts, men, women, and finally we talked about sex! The conversation was very easy and I felt very relaxed with him. So relaxed that when I told him my shoulders and neck hurt from the entire dam PC work I was doing he offered to help me. He took off my heels and began to rub my feet. I don't know what he did but his touch on my feet was helping my back and neck! He had both feet up on the couch and was rubbing each foot in a rotation. The left then right then left! I closed my eyes and let his fingers push and rub my feet for over a ½ hour. He was magical. His hands made my entire body feel so good. We had maybe 4 more drinks and I was starting to get a little dizzy. He asked me: "Are planning to drive home>" I said: "Yes, but not right away. I'm to dizzy Bud. Don't give me any more to drink. OK?" He smiled at me and said: "Well that's my plan Shelly! I'm going to get you drunk, and then take advantage of you!" he said it and I didn't know if he was serious or not! I told him: "Well if you keep rubbing my feet baby, I'll be the one taking advantage of your ass!" We both laughed and he poured the3 last of the blue sex juice, that's what he called it, into my glass. He got up and got the vodka and 7UP and made a drink for himself. He told me: :"You have to have the sex juice after all you're the one who'll need it when we make love baby!" I laughed and told him: "You'll never keep up with me sugar you're 35 years older than me. I can fuck your brains out!" he smiled and said: "Well we'll have to see won't we. But, first I'll lick your body from head to toe stopping at the center of your sex to get you off 3 or 4 times. 

Then and only then will you be ready for me" I smiled and told him: "Yea! Right! You could never keep it up for as long as I like it Bud! Stop fooling around." He was rubbing my leg now around my knees and back to my feet. He also had my legs apart the old devil! I'm sure he was getting a good view up my dress! I was almost lying down on that big soft sofa and he had his hands working on my legs and feet. Mostly my legs now! I was smiling to myself thinking he's going to try it! I know he is and I'm going to have to break his arm. He said: "I love it when you wear these short skirts and walk pass me at work. I really think you are one sex beautiful woman Shelly, and I'm really glad we're friends and you're over here tonight!" I said: "Well Bud you're hands are rubbing a little high if we're just friends! He was under my skirt about 4 inches up my thighs. No, make that between my thighs, which were open even more now. He smiled and asked me: "Well doesn't it feel good? Do you want me to stop?" I smiled at him and said: "You're a devil Bud! You know that! A dirty, old devil! And you sure know how to make a lady wonder about you!" He asked me: "Why. What you see is what you get baby!" His hands never stopped moving and now they were with 3 or 4 inches of my pussy, which was to my surprise a little, wet and tingling! I said: "Woo Bud! You better stop before I break off your fingers! No higher you understand! We were doing dinner tonight not each other. OK? No higher baby!" He told me: "Well you're no fun! Turn around and let me rub your neck and shoulders. It will help." I did and he began to work on my neck first then my shoulders and then my lower back. He told me: "God Shelly! You are tight baby! You are also very strong I can feel the definition of your muscles in your back and legs you are really built! I wish I had your definition!